Let me tell you a little bit about myself
I am a kink expert, professional Dominatrix, kink/BDSM educator, published author and somatic healer.
I am dedicated to teaching curious individuals and couples how to deepen their connection to self and their relationship to others.
My therapeutic journey has brought me to all stretches of the world with the goal of helping people explore their sexuality and supporting them in connecting more deeply in relationship - emotionally, spiritually and sexually.
I first began my journey in the BDSM lifestyle in 2002 as Mistress Nina Payne. In 2006, I was hired by New York’s top dungeons to develop training programs for aspiring Dommes. Deeply inspired by sharing erotic wisdom with others who were hungry to learn about this delectable world, I eventually launched my educational company, Domi Dollz, two years later. With this venture, I brought my kink knowledge to the mainstream by holding public workshops to teach and empower curious individuals and couples to enhance their sex lives and relationships through kink and fantasy exploration.
My experiences led me to the therapeutic nature of kink, which encouraged me to seek out more rigorous psychology-based education. This was how I found a somatic therapeutic modality called Core Energetics. Through the power of talk therapy, combined with body psychotherapy and energy work to facilitate a spiritual awakening, I guide my clients toward healing and wholeness.
Today, I blend and build upon these various teachings and modalities to provide essential healing around intimacy, relationships, and sexual health.
Sexual care is self-care. I look forward to supporting you on your journey to sexual transformation.
My focus of expertise lies in these three words:
Eros. Kink. Love.
Eros.
Typically defined as ‘sexual energy’, but it is so much more! Eros is our passion, vitality and life force energy. It is the source of all creation.
Kink.
Typically defined as ‘the unconventional’ in sex, however it covers a wide range of erotic activites across a spectrum. Kink requires imagination, communication, and vulnerability.
Love.
It’s what makes the world go round! My aim is to help you access this essential part of life starting with the greatest love of all - the love you have with yourself!
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My unique approach of blending conscious kink, sexuality and somatic therapeutic modalities have led me to be sought after by national publications, TV shows and institutions.
Notable media and in-person appearances include: The Wall Street Journal, New York Post, Business Insider, Time Out Magazine, ABC’s 20/20, ABC’s Nightline, The Oprah Winfrey Network, Princeton University and the Embodiment Conference.