Most importantly and above all else: My approach is one of complete non-judgment. I firmly believe that every single individual exists with purpose and I welcome all who are interested in making positive changes toward a life of fulfillment. 

With that said, the work I do goes beyond traditional talk therapy. I blend and build upon various teachings and modalities to provide essential healing around intimacy, relationships and sexual health. This work can be extremely transformative for clients who are ready (and willing) to ‘go deep’. My mission is to help clients get out of their heads and access the wisdom of their bodies, because this is when deep and lasting change happens. My aim is not to analyze or evaluate - instead, I will partner with you to ensure you feel heard and seen. I will honor the place in you that needs to tell your story and have your upsets acknowledged, with the ultimate goal of changing the story and moving toward resolution. 

I will help you form better and stronger relationships, with others (spouses, friends, parents, siblings, etc) and most importantly, with yourself. My therapeutic role is to help you get more of what you want out of life, while reminding you of your inherent magnificence.

 
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Benefits

  • PTSD

  • Physical, emotional, or sexual abuse

  • Relationship and sexual challenges

  • Concerns related to personality

  • Anger and aggression issues

  • Low self-esteem

  • Guilt and shame

  • Anxiety, panic, or depression

  • Lack of focus

  • Creative/life blockages

  • Lethargy

  • Work and family related pressure

  • Addictive behaviors

  • Suicidal ideation or self harm

 

Conscious Kink Journeys

A conscious approach to kink can lead to a more conscious approach to life. Kink allows for the exploration of desires, fantasies and vulnerabilities which expands into other areas of your life. In the realm of Conscious Kink, we engage in kinky activities in a self aware and fully present way. Thoughts, feelings and memories are given space for expression, opening you up to the potential for empowerment, growth and healing.

As a trained Core Energetics practitioner and professional Dominatrix, I created a unique approach to fantasy exploration by merging somatic healing techniques with kinky activities. By bringing the worlds of therapy and kink together, I can help individuals explore their sexuality (also known as eros energy or life force energy), as a way for my clients to access more pleasure, growth, and healing.

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No two Conscious Kink Journeys are alike!

Each session is typically 2 hours long and may include:

  • Deep breathing

  • Intention setting

  • Clear boundary-setting

  • Discussion of what will be worked on and how the session will go

  • Discussion of desired outcome

  • A container in which the client feels comfort, trust and safety

The way we approach sex is the way we approach life. Through Conscious Kink, we can open ourselves more fully to self knowledge and self love in order to explore the full spectrum of sexual expression. Consciously breaking through barriers in sex can ultimately lead to breaking through barriers in life so that we can live life more fully.

For more on Conscious Kink, click here.

If you have more questions check out our FAQs

 

Private Training/Coaching

Can we chat in private?

For those ready to take their kink education to the next level and with more intimacy and privacy, I offer several options. Intensive courses can be conducted in the following formats: 1:1 classes, couples classes, small groups and Dominatrix Training.

I provide a warm, relaxed environment to learn more about using kink as a way to enhance love and sex. To fit your needs, I can customize a lesson plan just for you. Let’s chat about what (and how) you want to learn!

 

Couple’s Sessions

Looking to add some spice into your love life?

In a couple's kink session, I work alongside you and your partner to create your ultimate fantasy in a way that feels safe, effective, and meaningful. In some cases, partners might have an idea about kink but may be unsure where to begin or may need help in expressing or executing them. My role as your guide is to help you safely explore hidden passions and desires together. This is especially perfect for those who are not comfortable in a class setting and are looking for a more immersive, experiential and intimate learning experience. 

You can choose to arrange a session together or it can be a special intimate gift. These intimate sessions are perfect anniversary, birthday and Valentine's Day gifts - offering your partner an exciting new experience that will benefit the both of you. Couple’s kink sessions are a safe, mindful way to improve your ability to communicate and will help you to get to know yourselves and each other on a deeper level - ultimately rewarding you both with excitement and greater intimacy.

Each couple's kink session is tailor-made to fit the individual needs of that couple. Overall,

You can expect:

  • A safe and clean environment for the session

  • Exploration of your desires and fantasies and learning specific techniques to fulfill them

  • Introducing new ideas and scenarios that can help to ignite passion and stimulate creativity

  • Learning about After Care and how to stay in connection after the play has ended

DISCLAIMER: While many couples have found this experience to be cathartic, this is not a therapy session.

Kimi helped us bring back the spark and variety to our 10-year marriage. We’re exploring more and taking our intimacy to another level that’s both fun and exciting.

— Lindsey

 The Modalities I use

Core Energetics: Imagine embodied movement meeting talk therapy. Merging body-oriented psychotherapy and spiritual development, this modality brings consciousness to how we block ourselves by staying stuck in patterns that limit us. Core Energetics helps us understand how the way we live our lives and view the world around us is largely determined by our blocked energy patterns and repressed emotions, which can create cycles of frustration.

Non-violent Communication: Non-Violent Communication (NVC) is a communication method based on compassion and empathy. Our behavior stems from attempts to meet universal human needs. When we identify shared needs, expressed through thoughts and feelings, we can work with one another to meet them. The goal is interpersonal harmony, compassionate connection and cooperation. In my sessions, I share and teach NVC as a tool to help clients understand their own needs and strengthen their relationships through better, clearer communication.

Tension, Stress and Trauma Release: Tension & Trauma Release Exercises (TRE®) is a simple, innovative series of exercises that assist the body in releasing deep muscular patterns of stress, tension and trauma. TRE safely activates a natural reflex mechanism of shaking or vibrating that releases muscular tension, calming down the nervous system, and encourages the body to return to a state of balance and homeostasis.

Neurofeedback: A type of biofeedback, neurofeedback uses sound to measure brain waves and teaches your brain to self regulate. Using this modality, you may gain better control over your behavior and optimal brain function. Neurofeedback is particularly helpful in addressing stress and anxiety and enhancing general quality of life, creativity and relaxation. (Please note: this modality is available to in-person clients only).

It was not only memorable, but immensely empowering, healing, and eternally life-changing.

— KM